It’s long been a dream of mine to be published in print and well, it finally happened. I have two articles in the July/August edition of Proflight Zambia’s in flight magazine, Nkwazi. The glossy mag is one of the best publications the country produces and it’s great to be in it. That my first print articles are in a top tier magazine only makes me more chuffed. Better still, I’ll now be a regular contributor so there’ll be more articles to come.
So here it is, the first article I submitted to Nkwazi, Travelling While African, where
I reflect on my experience of living abroad with a focus on my time in Australia
and Italy.
Travelling While
African
It was a warm afternoon in the Eternal City, Rome, as I
walked along, heading out to see some of the popular tourist sites. A man
selling cheap Roman souvenirs, the kind made in China, stared at me and
screamed. I was scared for a second and wondered what horrible crime I had
committed. As I looked around, trying to figure out it if it really was me the
man in the too-tight grey jeans was staring at he pointed at me shouted “Naomi
Campbell!” Relieved, I burst out laughing and kept walking but not before a
couple of people pulled out their camera phones to take a shot of me as I
walked down my cobblestone catwalk. Somewhere out there are three Italian men
who mistakenly think they’ve laid eyes on one of the world’s greatest (and most
ill-tempered) supermodels. This little incident happened on the streets of Rome
during my good old days as a university student. Travelling and living abroad
as minority you may experience incidents of subtle or overt racism but there
are other experiences that are more innocent and downright funny.
In other cases of mistaken identity I’ve been mistaken for an
“African princess.” One Italian man approached me and presented an “Eat, Pray,
Love” type arrangement in which we would meet over coffee and I would teach him
English while he taught me Italian. This man thought I must be a princess
exploring Italy on a trip funded by my royal fortune. I assured him I wasn’t a
princess but I’m not sure he was convinced. Similarly, while on a boat ride off
the coast of Queensland, Australia an elderly Brisbanite man who was
well-travelled and by no means ignorant asked me if I had royal blood. He
however did not let the matter go until I mentioned being distantly related to
a member of a royal establishment back home. “You can tell these things,” he
insisted, “even if the relationship is distant.” Though surely, if I were a
poised white girl from England he would not assume I was related to princes
William and Harry. Still I laughed and took some pleasure in the fact that anyone
actually viewed me as regal.
In one incident that happened during my time in Brisbane I found
myself both confused and flattered. Over lunch a friend told me one of the
girls she lived with was talking about me. I braced myself for the worst only
to be told, “My roommate told me she thinks my Indian friend is very pretty.” I
didn’t know what to make of it. On the one hand she thinks I’m pretty, the
flattering part. On the other hand, she inexplicably thinks I look Indian.
Surprisingly, when I told one of my black Zambian friends living in Brisbane
hat someone had mistaken me for an Indian female she said the exact same thing
had happened with her.
One of the most baffling encounters for me happened on my third
day in Brisbane. I’d just moved into my on-campus accommodation and was
chatting with two girls I shared a floor with. When I said I was from Zambia
the bewildering response I got from one of the girls was, “What part of
Australia is Zambia in?” Too stunned to answer, my mouth opened but no words came
out. The only thing I can conclude is she thought I’m an aboriginal Australian
even though I scarcely look like one. Eventually I found my words and told her
Zambia is a country in Africa. She was embarrassed but glad to have learned
something new
The geographical confusion did not end there, a fellow university
student in Brisbane revealed that he did not know South Africa is a country.
When I mentioned a trip I had taken there several years ago this Canadian
master’s student said, “Oh, so South Africa’s a country. When I watched Invictus I
thought there was a south African team and a north African team.” Sensing how
dumbfounded and amused I was the guy tried to turn the tables on me and asked
me if I could name any Canadian provinces. He was lost for words when I
mentioned 6 out 8 provinces in quick succession.
Back in Zambia I’m often asked if I experienced racism while
abroad and the simple answer is no. Not the direct kind anyway though I’d say I
experienced ‘racism of lowered expectations.’ That’s the kind that might make
people say, “Oh wow, your English is so good. Did you learn to speak it here or
back in Africa?” However, I found that most people who enquired about my
background and life back in Zambia did so out of genuine curiosity and had no
intention of offending me. For many people in Rome and Brisbane especially, I
was the first black person and/or African they had the chance to interact with.
People had a sincere desire to learn about the place I’d come from and to hear
firsthand accounts rather than just news reports. And that’s the beauty of
travel, for both the traveller and the local that encounters the traveller, it
offers the opportunity to learn something new and enrich our lives. It’s a
mixed bag at times. Some days you’ll be mistaken for a supermodel or princess
and others you’ll roll your eyes so many times because once again someone made
a comment about ‘Uncle Bob’ aka Robert Mugabe after you said you’re from
Zambia. The sights, sounds and tastes we experience when we travel enrich our
lives but the most enriching experience is part when we interact with the
people that create them.